Holmes is the one in charge in the TomKat marriage

It seems that the balance of power is shifting in Katie Holmes and Tom Cruise’s marriage, and it’s the former who’s now in charge.

Cruise has often been characterized as a control freak, but now sources reveal that Holmes’ influence is making him loosen up.

And, evidence of this was more than evident at the party he, Holmes and Jada and Will Smith threw for pals David and Victoria Beckham.

“Tom looked completely in awe of Katie,” Life and Style Weekly quoted a guest, as saying.

A source added that instead of Holmes looking for guidance, it is Cruise who is doing so.

“It is clear that Tom looks to Katie for praise and inspiration, and he gets it in spades,” says an insider.

And, so much has Cruise loosened up thanks to Holmes and baby Suri, that according to the publication, he’s even open to exploring other faiths, other than Scientology.